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Dear Ruth,
We're talking about elevator speeches this month.
Here's one of my favorites from an IRS agent weary
of the fear and loathing his position generated.
When asked what he does, he responds:
"Me? I'm a government fundraiser. Our group
raises needed funds for the various other
departments within the government. I'm Richard
Charles, but few call me Rich. (Here he pauses and
smiles.) And what do you do? Raise it or spend it?"
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PRHS Project Success students have their
year-end celebration this week. Their first year has
been a busy one -- roller skating, parades, lots of
good times. But they've been working on their
attendance and grades, too. And some very
practical things like learning to fill out applications for
summer jobs. Way to go!
YABC Year-End Celebration - in the
PeacePower tradition the Young Adult Borough Center
held it's year-end celebration June 15th to honor new
graduates, good grades, improved grades,
contributions to community life, and just about
everything else they could think of. YABC serves
older students, many of whom dropped out and now
attend YABC in the evening while working. How many
people graduated? We won't know for sure for
awhile. The diplomas come from the student's home
school, so the guidance counselors there still have to
sort through all the credits. But everyone agreed,
it's been a great year with lots accomplished.
Congratulations to all.
Kathy Vaughan reports that several people
responded to her request for opportunities to talk
about mediation. This spring staff have been to all
three police precincts, two precinct community
councils and several PTAs. If you have a group
that
could benefit from knowing more about mediation
she'd love to oblige.
The Community Dispute Resolution Center
welcomes Gary Carsel as a case
manager. Gary is no newcomer to the New York
Center, though. He's been an active volunteer here
since 2001. Gary has mediated in Manhattan through
the New York Metropolitan Better Business Bureau.
In Staten Island and the Bronx he's mediated Civil
and community Mediations and arbitrated the Lemon
Law .
The First World/Fifth National Mediation
Conference: "A route towards a culture of
peace" will take place in the city of Hermosillo,
Sonora, Mexico next November. Yo
u can visit their website for more details.
Read about the New Beginnings Cultural
Extravaganza in the SI Advance article now on
our website.
Mosaic Youth Fest plans underway - 300
youth groups meet regularly on SI - faith-based,
teen centers, after-school programs, -- all kinds of
youth groups. And now plans are underway to hold a
Mosaic Youth Fest in the fall. We're reaching out to
groups and individual young people to participate in
the planning, train to facilitate workshops, develop
publicity and outreach, and about a thousand other
things. For more information contact Mike Baver at
718-815-4557, x24.
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| Kudos for Andrew |
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Andrew brought the house down at our recent
breakfast fundraiser. The placemats on the table
were blowups of his tenth grade report card -- grade
average 45.4 %. Pretty pathetic.
Andrew was straight about it. He was up to no good
in high school. Drugs, alcohol, absenteeism, and,
yes, violence. The last straw was slugging the
assistant principal in the cafeteria. He was
out. New Beginnings wasn't really a choice for
him.
Then he talked about what happened at New
Beginnings. How things were different; the staff here
tapped into a different part of him. He began to
change.
He stood before a group of forty adults and told
us what it meant to him that his parents could now
be proud of him. That he was bringing them joy, not
pain. That New Beginnings had, indeed, brought him a
new beginning.
Then he asked us to open the envelope. Inside was a
copy of his most recent report card - grade
average
84.29 %. He brought the house down.
Andrew Paniagua was one of several at our
fundraising breakfast who shared stories of the NY
Center changing lives. Your contributions of time,
money, and moral support make these changes
possible.
Thanks to students Tanasia Peat for her poetry,
Husayn Whigham, Paul Outlaw, and Kevin Hurd from
McKee After 3 for facilitating Big Wind Blows; Andrew
Paniagua from New Beginnings; Alex Korkov from the
SI Office of the Commission on Human Rights who
spoke about the Mosaic Coalition; and Andrew
Greenfield, Asst. Principal, PRHS, who told folks that
Andrew's isn't a unique story. He sees the impact
the NY Center staff makes everyday.
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Have you got a personal or organization-wide
elevator speech? You know, that 45 second
speech about what you do that takes less time than
an elevator trip from the top floor to the lobby.
The point - to provide a ready answer to the
question (in our case) 'What is it that NY Center
does?'
It's common wisdom in the 'for profit' world to have
one that's for potential customers, another when
you're looking for job leads, and one for that venture
capitalist you run into by chance. Well, we need
one, too for potential donors, funders, clients
and volunteers. One that staff, mediators,
volunteers, and board can all use so our message is
clear.
We want it to generate interest. Stimulate
questions. Twenty-five words or less is ideal. No
jargon - just real world benefits we provide to our
community. We tried one approach in our special
events issue last week but we're not satisified yet.
The New York Center for Interpersonal
Development
finds ways to strengthen communities and build
relationships by learning and teaching the tools to
resolve conflicts and support one another.
Try your hand at it. All submissions welcome.
Maybe Dom will spring for a prize. We'd love
to see any speech you develop for yourself or
another organization, too. We'll post them on our
website with a link to yours - an advertisement of
sorts-to spur creativity.
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Friday, June 17, 8:00 AM - 5:00 PM -ACRGNY
Annual Conference -
ADR: WAVE OF THE FUTURE OR FALSE PROPHECY?
Benjamin N. Cardozo School of Law. For details
visit:
WWW.ACRGNY.ORG
Friday, June 17, 1-2 pm
Tuesday, June 28, 8-9 am
Thursday, July 14, 6-7 pm
Come Get to Know Us - Join us for a one-
hour conversation about how we strengthen
communities and improve relationships. We won't run
overtime. We won't ask for money. We just want you
to know us. 130 Stuyvesant Place, 5th floor. RSVP
Liz Bonici or 718-815-4557, x 30
June 23, 24, 26,27, 28 : Divorce Mediation
Training with Adam Berner, NY Center Training
Institute. For details,
check here or call Kathy
Vaughan at 718-815-4557, ext 25.
Wednesday, June 29 Beyond Bias, From Tolerance
to Trust, Building Trust Skills in Diverse Communities
Sponsored by Project Hospitality, this year's
summit begins with a panel of leaders who've worked
to create diverse and vibrant communities. We'll
break into discussion groups to share ideas and
strategize. For more information contact Kathy Vaughan
at 718-815-4557
Thursday, July 7 - Mosaic Coalition Meeting -
Help us plan the 2005 Celebrate Diversity
event. This year we honor our Indian, Cuban, Irish,
Jewish and Albanian friends and neighbors. All are
welcome. For more information contact Angela
D'Aiuto at 718-815-4557, x18
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ON MY MIND...Dom's Wanderings |
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June is a wonderful month for me. I get to see the
results of all the labor our youth development staff
invests in youngsters all year long. The school-
based programs are ending with celebrations of
accomplishments. Young people are looking back with
pride and forward with excitement. Great
things have happened, and I want to state a
public 'thank you' to the staff.
On the mediation front, we've been thinking about
what comes after the conflict is resolved. How
do people heal? So often long term relationships
suffer breaks that seem irrevocable. A recent
client talked with us about the pain of losing a
longtime friend over a conflict between their
children. Should he just let it go? Or could conflict
resolution skills help patch the relationship, too?
A restorative justice framework brings healing and
restitution into the equation.
Can we, should we add a new service? How would we
describe it? It's a concept worth exploring on a
summer afternoon.
On another note, my thanks to all of you at the
Imagine Breakfast. Thank you for spending the time
with us. We received gifts from $5 to a $1000 and
we're grateful for every one. Your gifts contribute to
changing lives.
Thank you. Have a great month.
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